Stop Drinking and Start Reading
- OYNB

- Nov 17
- 2 min read

Reading Changed My Life
Books have transformed my life beyond recognition.
The moment I started reading again, my entire world became ten times richer.
New ideas, new worlds, new possibilities — all unlocked through the simple act of opening a book.
There’s a strange belief many of us carry from school:
that every book we start must be finished.
If we don’t finish it, we feel like failures.
This mindset stops people from reading altogether.
But the real goal is simple:
build a reading habit.
Read anything. Read everything.
If a book doesn’t speak to you — drop it.
Pick up another.
Just keep reading.
The Limiting Belief
By the age of 30, I had read only a handful of books — the ones forced on me at school and a few sporting autobiographies. Somewhere along the way, I built a belief that reading was pointless because I couldn’t remember what I’d read.
I thought that if I couldn’t recall the words verbatim, it meant I was stupid.
So, to “protect myself,” I removed the problem entirely:
I stopped reading.
Problem solved — or so I thought.
It’s sad how proudly I repeated this story for years.
It shrank my world.
It held me back.
And I had no idea.
The Breakthrough
In my early thirties, I picked up a book again.
I read it.
I enjoyed it.
I remembered very little —
and for the first time, I didn’t care.
The next book changed everything.
Inside it was a simple truth:
Most people retain only about 20% of what they read.
I wasn’t stupid —
I was normal.
But I had lived for almost 15 years under a belief that put a lid on my entire world.
Now that was stupid.
From that moment on, I made a promise:
I will never stop reading again.
The Best Investment on Earth
Seth Godin summed it beautifully on Tim Ferriss’s podcast:
“Books are still the most amazing value. For £10, you can buy something that might change your life.”
Honestly — what product in the world gives you that kind of return?
And when you quit alcohol and the fog of hangovers lifts, something incredible happens:
you suddenly have the motivation, clarity and energy to learn again.
Use that energy.
Read.
Or, if reading isn’t your style, download audiobooks — there are millions of titles now waiting for you.
A Few of My Favourites
Fiction
Catch-22
1984
The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy
Non-Fiction
Awaken the Giant Within
Seneca — On the Shortness of Life
Philosophy for Life
Bounce: The Myth of Talent and the Power of Practice
Mindset: How You Can Fulfill Your Potential
Flourish
The Willpower Instinct
If you have recommendations, I’d love to hear them — great books deserve to be shared.




